Many of you have listened to me through the past few months with debating about what to do about work. It truly was an inside battle that I was having with myself on whether I would be happiest to stay at home or go back to work. I think it is one of the hardest decisions for women to make these days and I didn't take the decision lightly. I have always been driven to succeed and worked so hard to get where I am in my career. Starting out with internships in TV and radio and working my way through the competitive world of advertising. While some people thought I was crazy, I loved working long hours and thrived on deadlines and challenges.
Three years ago I joined Diablo which was closer to home, less stress and easier hours. I knew it was the right direction I needed to make in order to eventually start a family since I would no longer be commuting. When I went on maternity leave, Diablo was hopeful that I would be able to come back Part-Time, which would have been ideal. Unfortunately with how the economy has turned in the last few months, my position was eliminated and I found out this morning that I will not be returning to Diablo. It took a few moments of me being sad to then realize that it really was all a blessing. When I went to bed last night I prayed that all would work out how it should. AND...I really do believe that everything happens for a reason. When I would talk to my friend, Jen about what to do she would say to me, "I know it will all just work out how it should." And she was right. I didn't have to make the decision, it was made for me. And now looking at Roman I smile and think how much I am going to cherish the time I am able to be at home with him.
Through it all, Jason has been so supportive to me. He never worries and always reminds me that everything will be fine. I am so lucky to have a husband that wants whatever makes me happy. He is AMAZING!
So I am joining the world of stay at home moms. Of course, I will always be working on something on the side (I just have to, it is in my blood).
SIDENOTE:A new blog is already in the works and at least it will help my creative juices flowing. Stay tuned for details.
I am ready to hit the gym, schedule playdates, go on morning walks with Marley, make Jason lunch and most importantly shower Roman with all the love and attention I have.
My new boss. Isn't he a cutie? When I came home today after my meeting, I picked up Roman and said, "OK man, you are stuck with me 7 days a week." I think he smiled.
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Oh Heather! Getting laid off, regardless of the reasons (or the fact you were sort of ok with it) still stinks.
I am happy you get to stay home with Roman. He is one lucky little boy to have such a fun mom.
Your new boss is the very cutest.
P.S Please come play with me before it snows.
I love this post! It was so cute and touching. The right decision did "just work out how it should." You are a wonderful mom and Roman is so lucky to have you!!! I love that you called Roman your new boss! :) I'm just sad that I will not be able to make those morning walks, gym trips or playdates with you. I miss you!!!
So cute! I know my world turned upside down in a matter of minutes when Taylor virtually fell into our laps, but deciding to stay home with her was the best decision I ever made. Don't get me wrong, the short term gratification isn't really there, it's like I have to lean on Dustin for praise and appreciation. But when I get to witness those sweet moments with Taylor, I'm so glad that I'm the one who gets to be there. Love you lots!!!
What a blessing! It does always work out, doesn't it? :) I'm all about playdates. On behalf of stay-at-home-moms, we're happy to have you on board.
it will all work out. You will cherish the time you have with Roman and in the long run realize what a blessing it was to stay home with him.
I too am excited to have you as a stay-at-home mom. I'll invite you to my next Tupperware party (j/k). We are COOL stay-at-home moms. Your new boss is one lucky guy :)
Roman is a lucky boss. I know he can be very demanding and makes you keep long, long hours, but it will be so worth it! I know he'll reward you for it! Love you!
That was the best post and I am so happy for you. The one thing you will never have to deal with is guilt. Obviously you will encounter a lot of other emotions good and bad but I am always so glad that I never feel guilty for not being with Audrey. You will love it, good for you!!
Heather what a blessing that in the end you really didn't have to "decide." You knew something like this would work out and I am so happy for you that it did. I am sorry to hear you got laid off, but I am thrilled for you and Roman that you two can have your time togehter...I wish you BOTH the BEST!!! xoxox
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